I am not spoilt.

Hong kong is SOOOo COLD lately! Holy!! Apparently it’s the coldest December in 11 years!!!! Last night before I fell asleep I was just thinking how lucky I am to be sheltered and warm. I said to Tim, “What about the beggars in the streets of Hong Kong?”

Then I woke up and saw on the news about these homeless men dying  in the streets… It made me feel really sad. Made me wonder how these men ended up in the streets. Where is their family? What happened? 

We really take life for granted sometimes. Life is so short and like glass- it can shatter in seconds. So you guys out there reading this random post- you are all very blessed and lucky. You guys are safe and sound in your homes =). Feel lucky.

Lately- I realised one thing.

“Good people can have as much haters as bad people. Why? Because there are lots of insecure people”.

Apparently I’ve had an eyelid operation

Apparently I’ve had a nose job.

Apparently I’m spoilt.

Apparently I’m a lesbian.

Apparently I died (lol?)

I don’t care when people comment on how i look, dress, etc.. But do not question my integrity. My parents worked very hard to make living standards comfortable for us. I worked when I was 12 years old. Yes it was for my parents and what? I was treated like any staff of the restaurant. I mopped, I swept the floor. I cleaned the dishes. I memorized all the code numbers of 100s of dishes. I waited tables. I helped prepare the food. I had to deal with responsibility of running a restaurant before I even learnt what responsibility meant. I could’ve done better on my grades due to work but I don’t regret anything. Looking back- I enjoyed it very much. I learnt so much helping out and i wouldn’t change it for anything. I’m not spoilt.  

Everything I have now is earned by myself. I worked for it. I don’t have my parents to rely on. Ok- say even if i did? None of your business right? 

My boyfriend works hard too. We are both partners and because he treated me a surprise holiday for my birthday- I’m spoilt? The surprise holiday was the sweetest thing anybody has done for me. But I would’ve been happy if he made me a sock bunny or even a DIY card. I honestly felt really bad that he forked out tickets for me. But he told me its ok, you can earn money again but there’s not always a chance to go on holidays since we both got work schedules. I’ve been with my boyfriend ever since I was 16 years old. What makes you guys think hes rich anyway?. Can’t a guy work super hard for a whole year and then go for a 4 day holiday as a break? Please don’t insult my integrity by accusing me as a money-hungry scrounger alright? If you know me- you will know that I never let anybody ‘treat’ me. I always pay for myself. Another reason is why I barely even accept ‘sponsors’ now but I won’t even go there today.

People talk badly of others to make themselves feel better otherwise there would be no reason to do it right?

Instead of focusing your time stepping on other people. You should spend more time reflecting worrying about your own life. Ask yourself if what you’re doing is even making a contribution to the World. Is it making a contribution to your own life. You still don’t see it yourself? *shrugs*.

Sorry to break it to you but People who actually make it are Do-ers and not Talk-ers. 

I’m continuing to stride forward to reach my dreams (LOL so corny). I may fall and make crap loads of mistakes but at least I’m willing to try & learn. 

So there you go. I was brought up comfortably by my family and very very grateful for my parents & grand parents hard work.

You cannot buy happiness with money. Happiness is free. Why throw it away eh? Unless misery is your form of happiness. Whatever suits you baby. 

Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.

LOL again.

Pwnd.

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